Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) can make it challenging for your teen to navigate challenges and the world around them, even at school. It might make it so difficult or overwhelming that they refuse to go to school. As a parent, learning how to handle your teen’s autism and school refusal can help them embrace their individuality and make progress.
Family First offers neurodevelopmental treatment for teens at our center in Palm Beach Gardens, FL. We help teens living with ASD, ADHD, OCD, and other neurodiverse conditions through compassionate, evidence-based treatment. Call 888.904.5947 to get started.
Living with Autism During Adolescence
Adolescence is a time of fast change. Teens are learning to be more independent and create their own identities, working to break away from their parents in ways they’re comfortable. Plus, hormonal changes play a huge role in mental and physical growth, which only adds to the challenges.
Teens living with ASD often have an even harder time during adolescence. ASD is a developmental disorder that affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. As their peers start experimenting with independence and navigating new social circles, teens with ASD may struggle to understand the expectations and norms of this new phase in life, feeling like they don’t fit in or belong.
Common Reasons for School Refusal in Teens with Autism
When your autistic teen refuses to go to school, your first reaction may be to get frustrated. Take a step back and consider why they may be refusing. It could be due to any number of things that make it hard for them to attend.
Sensory Overload
Many teens with autism experience sensory sensitivities, making the noise, lights, and chaos of school overwhelming. The sensory overload can trigger anxiety and avoidance behaviors, leading to school refusal. Plus, being uncomfortable about things that are seemingly normal for their neurotypical peers can make your teen feel isolated and self-conscious.
Social Anxiety and Peer Interactions
Interacting with peers can be daunting for teens with autism. Difficulties in understanding social cues and forming relationships can lead to social anxiety, making school an intimidating and uncomfortable place. Isolation and lack of understanding from peers can also contribute to feelings of loneliness and exclusion, making school an unwelcoming environment for your teen.
Academic Challenges
The academic demands of high school can be overwhelming for any student, but it can be especially challenging for teens with autism. They may struggle with organization, comprehension, and executive functioning skills necessary to succeed in a traditional classroom setting. This can lead to frustration and avoidance behaviors, causing them to refuse to go to school altogether.
Many teens with autism also struggle with depression or anxiety. The added stress of school expectations and challenges can exacerbate these mental health issues, making it even harder for them to attend school.
Helping Your Teen with Autism Have Better School Attendance
Understanding the reasons behind your teen’s school refusal is crucial in finding solutions to help them. Here are some ways you can support your autistic teen and improve their school attendance:
- Work with the school to create a comfortable learning environment for your teen, such as providing sensory breaks or accommodations for their individual needs.
- Encourage peer interactions and provide opportunities for social skills development through extracurricular activities or group therapy sessions.
- Help build organizational skills and executive functioning abilities by creating visual schedules and using tools like planners or task lists.
- Consider alternative education options, such as online classes or homeschooling, if traditional schooling is not working for your teen.
You can also find professional help for your teen. It’s okay for you to not have the answers or solutions for every challenge they face. Asking for help when your family needs it is a sign of strength and love.
Reach Out to Family First for Help
At Family First, we understand the unique challenges that come with raising a teen with autism. Our team of experienced professionals provides neurodevelopmental treatment to help your child thrive in adolescence and beyond. We offer a comprehensive approach that includes individual therapy, group activities, family support, and life skills development.
Don’t hesitate to reach out and get the support you need for both yourself and your teen. Call 888.904.5947 or complete our online form to find help at our treatment center in South Florida.